"His answer got past the girls' defensiveness, Van Maren says, leading to a half-hour conversation. "I just said, 'Look, I think that one of the reasons women have abortions is because men aren't standing up for their children. If either they're being passive and saying it's up to you or they're being aggressive and saying you need to abort this baby, we don't want to ruin our lives,'" he continued. "And within a half an hour of conversation, all three of them changed their minds and became pro-life."